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Roisin Dubh's avatar

This is a tricky topic because the activity has been normalized in the U.S. It ruins marriages, and it results in violating vows. Some therapists encourage its use. It distorts healthy sexuality and usually involves secrecy. In general, women dress and groom in an effort to provoke a sexual response in the mating competition. I think it gets down to choice, values, love, and sacrifice. A doctor told me years ago that it affects the brain in harmful ways. There is no way to rationalize that this activity leads to fulfillment and wholesome, stable relationships, although those who want their cake and eat it, try to. It seems life is so much about resisting temptation in every sphere; every resistance builds character, and strong characters are most desirable.

Tracey Holekamp's avatar

16 college age men in this “study”?! That’s not a STUDY

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